Self-Love Kit Gift Guide


My favorite self-love kits (and a quick few tips on creating your own)



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Self-Love Kit Gift Guide
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This Valentine’s week is a special edition gift guide dedicated to self-love. 

If taking time to celebrate yourself and nurture your needs is difficult for you, you might just need a little preparation and a plan of action so to speak. 🙂 Make it super easy to step into the self-love mindset by having all that you need, ready to go, in one easy, accessible spot. 

So, I have put together a list of my favorite self-love kits (and a quick few tips on creating your own). And some are super sexy, just in time for Valentine’s Day! 💋

The Aura Collection by Wildling

This 4-piece kit by Wildling will definitely help you get your energy moving. This company is dedicated to using ingredients that are certified organic and wild harvested whenever possible and sustainable materials.  

The Aura Collection includes two oils, a dry brush and a gua sha tool made 100% sustainably sourced Bian Stone. They are designed to use in conjunction with one another to stimulate lymph flow, release muscle tension, and smooth rippled skin.

The Aura Collection by Wildling
Photo from Wildling

Le Wand Little Pleasures Set

Yep, this is the ultimate self-love set – a pair of sleek and sexy vibrators. (gasp!) Let’s be real: as the old joke goes, 98% of people masturbate, and the other 2% are lying. 😉 We’ll never know for sure just how many people are actually feeling themselves literally, but according to the NY Post about 84% of Americans admit to self pleasuring. 

So ditch any judgment, and embrace the benefits of masturbation. And there are plenty – like better sleep, stress relief, a blissful boost of serotonin, dopamine and oxygen to your brain, and increased blood flow. Not to mention, this surprisingly mindful activity will teach you what your body needs to release, leading to more confident and satisfying sex sessions with partners too!

The Le Wand Little Pleasures Set includes two rechargeable vibrators small enough for travel and a removable textured silicone sleeve and ring for added pleasure. These petite and powerful tools are a best seller and were even featured in Oprah Magazine. And well, if Oprah is down, then so am I!

Le Wand Little Pleasures Set
Photo from Le Wand

Dame Gift Sets

Dame Products also offers a half a dozen vibrators sets for everyone from self-pleasure newbies to couples to singles who like a lot of variety without having to buy a ton of toys. 

Dame Products Gift Set
Photo from Dame Products

Don’t Text Your Ex This Valentine’s Day Bundle by Ella Paradis

For a cheeky night in, this adorable kit from Ella Paradis (who recently collaborated with Lily Allen on her Womanizer Liberty vibrator) includes a heart-shaped massager vibrator, 2 bottles of body oil for a sensual massage, 1 Sweet Orgasm Candle to set the mood and 2 bath bombs to relax after you clear your body and mind of the toxins from any bad breakup. 😉

Don't Text Your Ex This Valentine's Day Bundle by Ella Paradis
Photo from Ella Paradis

Rose Revitalize Massage Kit

If you want to combine massage and stimulation, this Revitalize set by Rose is designed to help you pinpoint areas of the body that are holding tension – whether chaste or erotic. You can use it solo or with a partner, and it comes with three silicone attachments to mix up the texture and pressure. (It’s available in Blue and Periwinkle.)

Rose Revitalize Massage Kit
Photo from Overkink

Self-Love Kit by terralite

If a relaxing soak is more your speed, this botanical spa kit is a great option. It includes a milk bath, a foot soak, a clay mask, scented candles and organic rose petals for a romantic night in. You can even customize the scents to match your favorite aromatherapy.  

Self-Love Kit by terralite
Photo from terralite

Zodiac Crystal Kits by Spirit Daughter

For my metaphysical ladies, Spirit Daughter offers an array of crystal kits to help you refocus your energy, enhance your meditation practice and detox your environment of bad mojo. You can choose from small sets specific to your Sun sign, selections to help you survive Mercury Retrograde (which is happening now until February 20th) or give as gifts to your loved ones in need of a little centering. 

Zodiac Crystal Kits by Spirit Daughter
Photo from Spirit Daughter

GROUNDING Self-Care Kit by Inner Light Botanicals

This self-massage kit was inspired by the Ayurvedic practice of Abhyanga and is designed to help you ground your spirit and calm your mind. The warming sesame oil is scented with cinnamon and clove to give you that cozy feeling of curling up in a fuzzy blanket and sipping a hot beverage. 

Each kit also includes an affirmation card and journal with lots of space for you to reflect each time you practice this stabilizing ritual. 

GROUNDING Self-Care Kit by Inner Light Botanicals
Photo from Inner Light Botanicals

If none of these goodies are the right fit for you, it’s super easy to curate your own self-love kit. Simply gather together your favorite tools for “you time” and put them in a special box or bag. 

Here are a few things you can include in your kit:

  • Bubble bath (or Epsom salts)
  • Face mask – either one you pop in the fridge or a clay mask
  • Foot or body scrub
  • Candles
  • Essential oils
  • Make a playlist of songs that make you feel good
  • Workout videos
  • Yoga Mat
  • Singing bowl or tongue drum
  • Gratitude Journal
  • Favorite Tea or Coffee
  • Art supplies

And then make sure this kit has pride of place in your home, so you can find it when you need it and ensure your self-love and care is a priority. 

Do you already have a self-love kit put together? Let me know what you’ve included by posting in The Badass Beauty Club, and join me every Friday at 9AM for a Facebook LIVE discussion. 

LOVE + self care!

Moniqua Plante

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